Carlie's Dating Tip #13

So, you're on the dating site and you finally find someone who you think is attractive, their page doesn't have any red flags and you decide to start a conversation. Everything is going fine for the first few back and forth messages, but then you realize that the other person isn't messaging you back... And when they do there's not much to it. What do you do? Go back through the messages you sent and determine how many of them asked a question.
You would be amazed at how many men I've talked to on dating sites who answer questions and stop asking them. Do you know what this shows me? You're not interested in finding out anything about me. Not to mention, if you're not asking me a question that limits what I have to talk about.
Always end your conversation/reply asking a question. This gives the other person a place to start and keeps the conversation going.
You're welcome.
*This goes out to you JS from POF. Sorry not sorry.

Carlie's Dating Tips: Show a wee bit of interest.
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