Just a single gal navigating the terrifying jungle of life, motherhood and dating sites while trying to maintain some sanity through comedy... and vodka.
Alcohol, single parenting and HORRIBLE dating experiences, what could go wrong?
I’ve made mistakes. Boy, have I made mistakes! Sometimes those thoughts keep me up at night. Maybe you know what I’m talking about …you’re trying to sleep and your chest tightens with anxiety when that memory pops in your head of that one embarrassing thing you said/did 8 years ago (or yesterday!). Really!? Really, brain? I can’t remember whether I fed the dog tonight but you bring this up? Well, extra dinner for Ollie and extra coffee for me! Thank goodness for Grace! Thank goodness for the ability to LEARN from our mistakes… to give them purpose. I have so much to learn and I know I can plan on a few more doozies before I figure it all out, but my mistakes serve a purpose and I can only hope the MANY moments of ‘Aw, shit. What the hell was I thinking?!’ lead me to finding peace in whatever my future holds… and if I hope my future holds love and vodka, who could really blame me? 😉 #lifelovevodka
A little about this blog... Dating. I understand no one will be a perfect match, but I feel it’s just as important to make sure that you are right for someone else as it is to find the person right for you. I think it's fair to have expectations and these are some of mine. I'm looking for a man who’s happy! I firmly believe that no one can make you happy. People can add to your happiness, but the foundation must already be there. I’m looking for a man who is confident! Everyone has moments of insecurity and their own ups and downs, but I’m looking for someone who realizes that these moments pass. I would like to meet a man who is comfortable in his own skin and with the person he is, but who can, at the same time, realize his faults and always strive to be a better person. I’m looking for a man who is supportive! This means Emotionally, Physically and Financially. Now, don’t get me wrong, I have always supported myself and am not looking for a “sugar daddy” by any me...
Dear men, While I do get a laugh out of this, it's not something to send as an initial message before you get to know someone. Give it a little time, at least! SMH Carlie's Dating Tip: If you wouldn't say it in person, don't say it on the internet. #lifelovevodka
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